The story of my first client: He was once among the group of men who did not have the guts to walk over to a beautiful lady and introduce himself. Sometimes he would take a taxi to some popular areas where great looking girls hung out and just stood there for hours feeding his eyes.
When he gets to his house, he would lock himself in his bath room and start using the images of those beautiful women he has stored in his mind to masturbate. He was so pathetic and he hated his life. Every time he saw a very beautiful woman, his heart started beating twenty times faster than normal.
And when he summoned the courage to even up speak up, he always ended up fidgeting and stuttering. His case was so bad. But today, all that has changed. He made a very strong decision to find a lasting solution to his problems. He was ready to pay the price at any cost, If he could do it, I believe that anybody can!
Without wasting any of your precious time, I would love to go straight into the main reason why we are here. I want to show you two ways that I use when approaching a very beautiful lady. Ok, let's roll, pay some attention to this.
Approach No. 1
The "Hi" Formula: When I see a very beautiful lady that I like to game, I simply walk up to her and with a glowing smile on my face I would say a friendly hi. I do this looking straight into her eyes and with my hand out stretched, offering a friendly hand shake. Most times if not all of the time, I would normally get a smile, a hello and a hand shake in return.
Then I go straight to introduce myself. E.g. my name is Lemar, am the owner of Microsoft and I would like to offer you a lucrative Job in my empire (I try be a little bit funny and unpredictable). Before you know it the conversation has started flowing. Note: For you to be able to approach women and send out the right messages, you have to learn how to use the Alpha male body language very well. And lastly, the illustration I gave above is just an example I won't advice you to go telling the next fifty ladies you meet that you are the owner of Microsoft. What am trying to point out to you with that illustration is that you should be fresh and unpredicted from the very beginning of your conversations.
Approach No. 2
The cool and Humble Approach: I use this approach when I want to approach ladies who are not only beautiful but are also wealthy. Note: when approaching these classes of women you must dress properly, you must look cool. For this purpose, I usually pull out my must expensive body spray, deodorant and perfume. I have found out that ladies in general are drawn to nice fragrance.
When I want to approach these classes of ladies, I would walk up to them and say something like "Good evening madam (Or any term or name that portray respond and show that you are a perfect gentle man)" I say it in a way that seem like I am teasing her. Ok, let me paint the picture for you; imagine you calling your immediate younger sister "MADAM". You say the "MADAM" in a way that shows that you are neither scared of her beautiful or her status.
Why didn't you just walk up to her and say "Hi"? I didn't use the "Hi" opener here because from experience I have discovered that these classes of beautiful CEO's are more focused and serious minded. They are used to being respected. So, when they come across a confident young man who seems not to be scared of their face and of their money, they would normally want to know, "what's with this guy".
So I walk up to her with my Alpha male body language and say Good evening MADAM in a cocky way with glowing smile on my face. Before she says anything, I go ahead and introduce myself "am Lemar", can we get to know each other better..by the way, what's your name? And because you have started with the "MADAM" opener (like a complete gentle man), she would be forced to introduce herself because she doesn't know what direction the conversation is heading yet. When you are talking to these classes of women, maintain constant your eye contact. This will sends out the message that you are not scared and that you are comfortable around her. I am Lemar Bloom, see you around, and please stay out of trouble.
Lemar Bloom is a professional dating coach with more than ten years of experience. He has helped thousands of men get their dream partners by applying his much sort after killer dating tactics. You can join him on his blog as he teaches men the science of attracting and keeping smart, sexy and successful women with ease.
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