How to prolong your man orgasm

How you looking for ways to improve your sexual performance in bed? There are many tips that you can use today and it takes a bit of common knowledge to know better. With the right information, you can be sure of getting a long orgasm that you will enjoy everytime you have sex.

1. You should masturbate less. Why is this so? Masturbation can make your mind get used to ejaculation, and you may end up ejaculating faster than before. You will ejaculate faster and faster than before, and this will kill your sexual appetite. This makes you desirable for sex.

2. Do not put too much pressure. Anxiety can make you feel more pressurised in bed, thus preventing you from performing. Learn to relax in bed, and you will be on your way to longer and more satisfying sex. Distract yourself by talking to your partner once in a while.

What you need to know about male orgasm

Does circumcision affect male orgasm? If the foreskin is removed and the head of the penis is exposed, it becomes less sensitive during masturbation and sex. Therefore the sexual intercourse lasts longer if the man is circumcised.

Does the male orgasm depend on the position like the female orgasm does? It does to a certain extent. A woman will get different sensations if she changes her sex position because different positions will stimulate different zones on her body. Men are visual creatures. They like to see different things. As long as it is visually satisfying, they can experience intense orgams.

The Male G-Spot - How to Stimulate the Prostate For Sexual Bliss

One of the most frequent questions I receive as a sex therapist is how to stimulate the prostate for maximum sexual pleasure. The good news is that once you have mastered stimulation of the male G-spot with the prostate hand massage technique, you will experience astonishing, full-body orgasms that last longer than the best of regular orgasms.

Where is the Male G-spot?

The prostate gland is located in the front wall of the rectum just below the bladder. It is a chestnut-sized gland that secretes prostatic fluid, which combines with seminal fluid and sperm to create semen. Nerves that control the sexual organs, including those controlling erection, orgasm and ejaculation, meet at the prostate and perineum.

How to Stimulate the Prostate

The prostate gland contains numerous nerve endings that are very sensitive to touch. You will need lots of lubricant because the tissue in this area is very delicate. It also helps to be as relaxed as possible.

Begin by gently massaging the area in a circular motion. Most men enjoy being masturbated at the same time. You can either use a prostate massager or the manual-finger method for gentle penetration.

The male g-spot will only increase in sensitivity during direct stimulation. Techniques include rubbing all over the gland or making a pulsing motion. As arousal deepens the prostate gland swells as the blood vessels expand. Orgasms are intense and are not necessarily accompanied by ejaculation.

Important Considerations

1. Hygiene is important and many sex manuals recommend the use of surgical gloves to prevent bacteria transferring from dirty fingernails or residue faeces. Surgical gloves can be bought from any pharmacy.

2. Water-based lubricants are usually best for any kind of penetrative sex. Test for allergies before use.

3. Pressing the prostate gland may give the sensation of wanting to urinate, but it will not actually happen.

4. Always check with your doctor when you first learn how to stimulate the prostate, especially if you have any concerns about prostate health.

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13 Questions About the Male Orgasm

For some reason the subjects of erection and potency are quite popular in magazines and various publications, and when it comes to the final result of that - an orgasm, there's hardly any information. We decided to correct this omission by answering the 13 most common questions about the male orgasm.

1. Is orgasm and ejaculation the same thing? Orgasm is what a man experiences during ejaculation. Orgasm can be wild and emotional, and can be completely dull. The latter can be technically called an ejaculation without an orgasm. The opposite situation (an orgasm without ejaculation) is pretty hard to imagine. Except for maybe when some sex macho who had seven sexual intercourses in a row and simply ran out of semen for the eighth one.

2. How many orgasms in a row can be considered a norm? Stories about how someone climaxed and started a new intercourse right away are for the majority a bluff. At the young age (up to 25 years old) for a man who is deeply in love 3 minutes break between sexual intercourses can be sufficient, this break tends to increase with age. If you are in a relationship and have sex regularly, usually one orgasm is enough to satisfy you, if you change partners often then you want to get the maximum out of it, then the norm is 2-3 ejaculations in a row (again the time interval between ejaculations depends on the age). Neither he nor she needs more than that. And men who say otherwise simply exaggerate and lie.

3. Is there such a thing as male anorgasmia (failure to achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse)? Yes, there is such a thing. There are different reasons for it: it can be due to malfunctions in the cerebral cortex or due to healing processes in the genitalia after a surgery or an infectious disease. There is a number of diseases of cerebral cortex or spine that lead to the so called "retrograde ejaculation" when the sperm is ejected not to the outside but to the inside into the urinary bladder. Outwardly it looks like there is no ejaculation, but if you take a test of the urine you will find spermatozoa in it. At the same time the erection is absolutely normal.

4. What is the accelerated ejaculation? There is no such term in modern sexology. There is though such a term as a couple's discord. All in all it really doesn't matter if the man climaxes in 10 seconds or in 40 minutes. The important thing is that both partners are satisfied. The accelerated ejaculation is majorly a psychological problem. 80% of accelerated ejaculation cases are treated with a simple conversation.

5. Does tantric sex when a man does not ejaculate for several days really charge you up with energy and extend your life? An artificial prolongation of sexual intercourse (especially after 40 years old) only harms a man's health, it raises the blood pressure and pulse, plus it is a physical as well as a psychological and hormonal load. Sex shouldn't become work or habit. Sex is a relaxation and pleasure, and that's how you should treat it.

6. Does circumcision affect male orgasm? If the outside flesh is cut off and the head of the penis is always open it becomes less sensitive. Therefore the sexual intercourse lasts longer if the man is circumcised.

7. Does the male orgasm depend on the position like the female orgasm does? It depends on the position to a degree but not in the same way. A woman will get different sensations if she changes the position since other zones of her body will be stimulated and this is exactly what influences her orgasm. For a man it is more important to change the angle from which he sees his partner. An obvious truth - a man loves with his eyes. That's why many men like doggy-style since they can enjoy the view.

8. What does the intensity of the ejaculation depend on? Sometimes the sperm just shoots out. And sometimes it lazily pours out... As a rule the first portion of sperm gets shot out. After the second and following intercourses it will just pour out. A good rush of sperm is a sign of your reproductive system working well. If the first portion is sluggish it means that the sperm is too viscous. This could be caused by long abstinence, an infection, a cold, or the beginning stage of prostatitis and is definitely a reason to consult a doctor. You shouldn't write it off as something that happens as you get older, the quality of sperm should not depend on your age.

9. Should the frequency of sexual intercourses match the frequency of orgasms? As we know it is not necessarily the fact for women. Ladies do not climax every time and there is absolutely nothing terrible with that. The same thing happens even to the best of men. Sometimes a man can get a woman to climax and just stop himself without ejaculating. However, if this happens more than half the time, it is a reason to get concerned.

10. What are the consequences of a long lack of ejaculation? The most common consequences of abstinence are prostatitis and other inflammatory processes. Combining chastity with inactive lifestyle is very dangerous for the pelvis. Even Julius Caesar after sitting a couple of hours on the imperial throne stepped to another room where two female slaves were awaiting him to perform oral sex. If your personal life is not going well for now then masturbation can serve as a substitute therapy.

11. Is ejaculation without a sexual intercourse a normal thing? Imagine looking at a picture in a magazine and all of a sudden climaxing. This is not called ejaculation. It is actually spermatorrhoea, the disease caused by the flabbiness of the muscle that surrounds the prostate gland. Or in other words it is a late stage of prostatitis.

12. Is it true that it is easier for a man to get an orgasm from oral sex than from genital sex? Actually it is solely a matter of personal preference. The only thing you need to remember is that having oral sex in the mornings can lead to male anorgasmia. In general, there are several hygienic rules you should follow. There are a lot of bacteria that get accumulated in the oral cavity overnight that lead not only to teeth cavities. If they get into male urinary ducts, these bacteria multiply, leading to inflammatory diseases. So make sure to brush your teeth before even thinking about oral sex.

13. Does the food a man eats affect the taste of his sperm? Sweets and fruit give the sperm a better taste. Garlic severely ruins the taste and smell of semen. Any inflammatory diseases in genitals will make the sperm bitter or stale. Therefore if you feel like something is wrong, don't try to spare his feelings, better think about his health and tell him honestly - "It doesn't taste good!"
Knowing this information will help you understand what's going on in male body a little more. And for ladies maybe even enough to catch your man off guard...and that is always a great way to start your love making.

Julian Sagan is the CEO and owner of a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2007 Julian Sagan of http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

Multiple Orgasms For Men

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Can men have multiple orgasms during sex... or is one time enough? Is it possible for average men to maintain an erection after ejaculation? And if so... is it hard? Does is require practice, patience or luck? In this article we are going to take a quick and insightful look at the magic, (and the myth and misinformation ) regarding multiple orgasm's for men, and how YOU can join in on the fun! Curious to know more? Great... continue reading as we take a closer look below! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: The Truth About Multiple Orgasms For Men

Let's start with the facts. There is a HUGE difference between orgasm, and ejaculation...and this is one of the greatest areas of misunderstanding when it comes to the male climax. The truth? Most men can have multiple orgasms with practice and exercise and can easily emulate the FEELING and sensation of orgasm, many times in one sexual session. (many Tantric traditions have taught this practice for centuries... and even more recent popular sexual self help books have solidified this fact) Alternatively though, some men are not able to "ejaculate" multiple times, depending on how much semen their body can manufacture. So while multiple orgasms are in fact something very special that just about anyone reading this can (and should!) learn how to do, whether you are able to ejaculate during subsequent orgasms may be contingent on your particular body and it's function.

So what is the best way to TRAIN yourself to achieve multiple climaxes during sex?

Very simple. The PC muscle regulates and is responsible for orgasmic control and flow. The simplest way to give yourself the gift of orgasm extension is to toughen, and strengthen this (and the surrounding) muscles. Kegel exercises, for example, have been taught for years by sexual therapists, and PC elevation exercises, and similar techniques have been used my male enhancement aficionados for YEARS to improve size, strength and duration of orgasmic release.
The key seems to be in the strength of these particular set of muscles... as the more control you are able to exert over this area, the more you can delay, change or resume orgasm at will! (and again, many Tantric teachers have been doing this successfully for lots longer than any of us have been around)

The bottom line?

Much the way that women are able to achieve multiples with some amount of ease, so too can you! Simply start a male enhancement exercise regimen that focuses on size, strength and control... and then practice! (and this is the sort of practice that's TONS of fun for you AND your partner as well..:-)

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