Why can't my girlfriend have an orgasm? Is it me... or is it her? Am I doing something wrong in bed... or is it something more seriously wrong with her? In this article we are going to take a quick look at a few very common reasons a woman can't climax during sex, and then examine some super simple solutions that any man can try to turn it around... and in a hurry! Curious to know more? Great... continue reading as we take a closer look below!
Okay... but I'm pretty sure she NEVER has an orgasm during sex. Aren't some women simply unable to have one?
The truth? Yes, a small percentage of women have a physiological (or psychological) problem that prevents them from achieving orgasm. But the truth is... that percentage is ULTRA low. (some doctors say under 3%) The fact is MOST women not only can have ONE orgasm from sex, they can actually achieve many if stimulated properly. The reason she isn't?
More often than not...
Not Enough Foreplay
The truth is, this is the BIGGEST reason a woman can't climax from sex with a man. (but often CAN climax easily while alone..:-) Most women need about 10 minutes of direct stimulation to achieve climax... as there is a "cycle" her body has to go through to get there. And as most of you already know, the majority of sexual encounters last a lot LESS than 10 minutes altogether... and that includes the cigarette afterwards...:-)
The easiest way to accomplish this, for most guys, is through foreplay. Any technique works... as long as your focus is strictly on her!
My best advice? If you have a woman who is NOT used to "getting there", simply block out a bit of time before sex EVERY time you are intimate to do nothing other than focus on her. This can be a massage. Or "petting". Or some sexy, spicy, creative conversation before sex...:-) Or really, any other sort of sexy stimulation that we can't describe in detail here..:-)
The key is... when it comes to foreplay MORE is more for sure! And this is obviously even MORE important if you have size or stamina issues, that prevent her from enjoying intercourse fully, as that is the most frequent complaint, obviously that most women have when it comes to being able to achieve climax from conventional sex.
(again... if you fall into this group, a focus on foreplay becomes even MORE important... as it's most likely the ONLY way you are truly going to be able to keep your partner sexually satisfied for sure)
And One Last thing.....Remember:
Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better (understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a
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